Break the Ice

Definition

Break the ice is an idiom meaning to do or say something to relieve tension or get conversation started in a social situation or meeting.

Parts of Speech

• Idiom
• Phrasal verb (transitive)

Pronunciation

• IPA: /breɪk ði aɪs/
• Respelling: BRAYK the EYES

Etymology

Late 17th century: from the literal practice of ships breaking ice to open waterways, later used figuratively to describe overcoming initial social awkwardness or stiffness.

Derivatives

• broke the ice (past tense)
• breaking the ice (gerund/participle)

Synonyms

• get the ball rolling
• initiate conversation
• warm up
• open the floor

Antonyms

• create awkwardness
• clam up
• shut down conversation

Usage

The idiom "break the ice" is used in social, educational, and professional contexts to describe actions that ease tension and encourage interaction. For example, "He told a funny anecdote to break the ice at the start of the workshop," or "Introducing yourself and asking a friendly question can help break the ice."

Related Terms

• Icebreaker: An activity or remark used to relieve tension and introduce people.
• Small talk: Light conversation about innocuous topics to establish rapport.
• Rapport: A friendly, harmonious relationship.
• Conversation starter: A question or comment used to begin a dialogue.
• Social lubricant: Something that eases social interaction (e.g., humor).

Detailed Definitions

Idiom / Phrasal Verb

• To relieve initial tension or awkwardness in a group – to perform an action or say something that makes people feel more comfortable.
  • Example: "She played a quick icebreaker game to break the ice among the new team members."
• To initiate social interaction – to begin conversation or interaction when people first meet or gather.
  • Example: "A simple compliment can help break the ice at a networking event."